Blue Ribbon

A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her seniors in high school by telling them the difference they each made. She called each student to the front of the class, one at a time. First she told each of them how they had made a difference to her and the class. Then she presented each of them with a blue ribbon imprinted with gold letters, which read, “Who I Am Makes a Difference.”

Afterwards the teacher decided to do a class project to see what kind of impact
recognition would have on a community. She gave each of the students three more
ribbons and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment ceremony.
Then they were to follow up on the results, see who honored whom and report back to the class in about a week.

One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a nearby company and
honored him for helping him with his career planning. He gave him a blue ribbon
and put it on his shirt. Then he gave him two extra ribbons and said, “We’re
doing a class project on recognition, and we’d like you to go out, find
somebody to honor, give them a blue ribbon, then give them the extra blue
ribbon so they can acknowledge a third person to keep this acknowledgment
ceremony going. Then please report back to me and tell me what happened.”

Later that day the junior executive went in to see his boss, who had been
noted, by the way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his boss down and
he told him that he deeply admired him for being a creative genius. The boss
seemed very surprised. The junior executive asked him if he would accept the
gift of the blue ribbon and would he give him permission to put it on him. His
surprised boss said, “Well, sure.” The junior executive took the blue ribbon
and placed it right on his boss’s jacket above his heart.
As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, “Would you do me a favor? Would
you take this extra ribbon and pass it on by honoring somebody else? The young
boy who first gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school and we want to
keep this recognition ceremony going and find out how it affects people.”

That night the boss came home to his 14-year-old son and sat him down. He
said, “The most incredible thing happened to me today. I was in my office and
one of the junior executives came in and told me he admired me and gave me a
blue ribbon for being a creative genius. Imagine. He thinks I’m a creative genius. Then he put this blue ribbon that says ‘Who I Am Makes A Difference'” on my jacket
above my heart. He gave me an extra ribbon and asked me to find somebody else
to honor. As I was driving home tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon and I thought about you. I want to honor you. My days are really hectic
and when I come home I don’t pay a lot of attention to you. Sometimes I scream
at you for not getting good enough grades in school and for your bedroom being
a mess, but somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just let you
know that you do make a difference to me. Besides your mother, you are the most important person in my life. You’re a great kid and I love you!”

The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he couldn’t stop crying. His whole body shook. He looked up at his father and said through his tears, “Dad, earlier tonight I sat in my room and wrote a letter to you and Mom explaining why I had killed myself and asking you to forgive me. I was going to commit suicide tonight after you were asleep. I just didn’t think that you cared at all. The letter is upstairs. I don’t think I need it after
all.” His father walked upstairs, and found a heartfelt letter full of anguish and pain.
The envelope was addressed, “Mom and Dad”. The boss went back to work a changed
man. He was no longer a grouch but made sure to let all his employees know that
they made a difference. The junior executive helped several other young people
with career planning and never forgot to let them know that they made a difference in his
life … one being the boss’s son. And the young boy and his classmates learned
a valuable lesson. Who you are DOES make difference.

Reflection: Can we find some time to tell the other we appreciate them for what they are and what they do for us. The need to be expressed not only kept in my heart.

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